What's Your EQ (Emotional Intelligence Quotient)?
Suddenly, you feel upset for no reason. Your reaction is to:
Ignore it. The feeling will pass.
Stop and reflect for a minute. Figure out what's bothering you.
You're in the middle of a complicated romantic situation. You:
Find it easy to express all the things you are feeling
Are probably more than a little confused
When you're in a bad mood, who's the first to figure it out?
People around you
You are often surprised by your emotional reaction to things.
When it comes to figuring out how people are feeling, you:
Often know what's up before they tell you
Often guess wrong
When your friend is frustrated or stressed, you know because:
They told you
You figured it how by how they were acting
Your cousin (who has bad spending habits) asks to borrow $500 from you to prevent getting evicted. You have the money but don't think your cousin will pay you back quickly. You:
Feel guilty saying no so lend your cousin the money anyway
Say no and suggest a credit counseling service to your cousin
When starting a new job or school, you feel:
Excited and optimistic
A bit nervous
Your friend has just won a new sports car. Deep down...
You are happy for your friend
You are a bit envious
You find yourself bored at work and really hating your job, even though it pays great. You:
Figure out how you can talk to your boss about improving things
Spend more time surfing the web at work and chatting with your friends.
The best times you have with your friends involve...
Conversation and a relaxed vibe
Partying, lots of drinking, and going crazy
When you're stressed out at work you:
Try to get as many things done as you can
Take time out to exercise or meditate
You and your best friend have a bad falling out. Your reaction is to...
Call all of your mutual friends to get their opinions
Calmly tell your best friend how you are feeling
How hard is it to get motivated to do something you don't want to do?
It's pretty easy to motivate yourself
Sometimes you have a hard time feeling motivated
If someone makes you angry, will you be angry with them for a long time?
When you get frustrated or upset, is it hard to think clearly?
Often to always
Seldom to never
If you see something you want (like a new cool gadget) do you have to have it right away?
No, you can wait for the price do go down
You think that important things in your life are controlled by...
Your own actions
You generally find life changes to be:
If things go wrong, you find yourself easily depressed.
Not so true
When someone is telling you about themselves you
Tend to let your mind wander
You prefer animals to humans.
You tend to dream...
Not very often
When meeting someone, you are usually
Early or on time
Sometimes, you find it hard to judge whether something is rude or polite.
Not so true
If someone seems awkward or uncomfortable in a group, you...
Try to reach out to them
Hardly even notice
You say something you feel is honest and direct but it offends someone you know. You...
Apologize and try to watch your words
Figure it's their problem not yours
If people are suffering on the news, it bothers you a great deal.
When you tease people, you are sometimes told you went too far with your teasing.
Not so true
You can appreciate the viewpoints of those with different political views than yours, even if you don't agree with them.
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