What Kind of Soul Are You?
Which is the most like you?
"I dream of the perfect mate even though I am disappointed again and again by people"
"I find that I often try to see the best in someone"
"I think of myself as positive and outgoing, especially in difficult circumstances."
"I love a challenge and strive to conquer at all costs"
"I am very social - I call people even if they don't call me"
"I naturally take charge of most situations"
"I often wonder if the grass may just be greener someplace else"
"I feel content to be wherever I am at any given moment"
"I need the opportunity to try out new and innovative ideas"
"I love to philosophize and intellectualize things"
"My main focus is relationships, family, and social gatherings"
"I like company but feel I can be just as happy doing my own thing by myself"
At your best you are:
Intense and idealistic
Artistic, aspiring to wonderful things
Dramatic, energetic, and fun
Inspiring and challenging to others
Insightful and sympathetic
Courageous and adventurous
A great storyteller and explorer
Spiritual and connected to the world
Easygoing and accepting of others
Curious and into trying new things
Compromising and good at giving advice
Knowledgeable and wise
At your worst you:
Find it very difficult to grow and change
Don't spend a lot of time living in the real world
Need to be the center of attention and are hurt when you're not
Can be selfish and demanding
Become depressed and pessimistic
Tend to be too controlling
Have trouble with commitment
Are too kind and let people take advantage of you
Are naive and too trusting
Find it very difficult to open up
Play the martyr or victim
Are judgmental and intolerant
When you're in love, you:
Hope this is the perfect partner you've been dreaming of
Ignore problems and remain hopeful that things will get better
Need to always feel appreciated, special, and unique
Try to show only your good side and keep your faults to yourself
Enjoy exploring your partner's thoughts and emotions
Are very guarded until you can trust your partner
Fall quickly for someone - but fall out of love quickly too
Are looking for a forever love, someone who will bond to you
Will fall for a strong person easily
Are hard to catch, but are prone to get serious quickly when caught
Quickly adapt to your partner's mood and lifestyle
Pick your partner carefully - you are willing to wait for a quality person
In friendships you:
Are caring and warm .. until you get hurt
Make friends easily. People tend to like you.
Tend to be the most popular person you know.
Gravitate toward people with strong personalities
Are good at picking out new friends that last
Keep the conversation going late into the night
Tend to pick up friends here and there, cycling through them quickly
Prefer being with someone one on one to group activities
Cultivate unusual friendships with all sorts of people
Have a ton of casual friendships but very few good friends
Remember everything about your friends' lives
Tend to stick with old, close friends who are a lot like you
If you become a great success, it will be because:
You are intense about achieving your goals
You are ambitious and a good worker
You always have to be number one, no matter what
You are good at energizing and motivating others
You're excellent at planning and strategizing
You never give up - no matter what
You're willing to take a risk if there's a big reward to gain
You're totally balanced - stress doesn't phase you at all
You are totally creative and always thinking of new ideas
You're bright, and you love a good challenge
You are trustworthy and honest
You are good at solving problems and don't get tied down in details
Which is the most true for you?
"I sometimes feel negative and often find something to complain about."
"I think I am sometimes unrealistic about my expectations of people and situations."
"I love to be the center of attention, even if it's at the expense of others."
"I motivate others with my enthusiasm but move on if they hold me up."
"I need reassurance and security. I am not always sure of my own value."
"I find that I am usually the first one to volunteer for something."
"I don't really need the security of a home, house, or family."
"I avoid conflict of any kind in order to keep stability."
"I openly and easily share my emotions."
"I always find myself interested in others."
"I enjoy nurturing my family and friends."
"I get involved with several projects at once, finding it hard to say no."
Your ideal lover is:
An optimistic, happy person
Is realistic and down to earth
Able to let you be the center of attention
A strong soul, who encourages and admires you
Protective of you but never controlling
Confident, strong, and totally loyal to you
Independent and tolerant of all your flirting
Outgoing, charming, and family oriented
Accepting, caring, and responsible
Brilliant and determined
Sensitive and on your wavelength
Moral and committed to you
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