What Kind of Soul Are You?

Which is the most like you?

"I dream of the perfect mate even though I am disappointed again and again by people"

"I find that I often try to see the best in someone"

"I think of myself as positive and outgoing, especially in difficult circumstances."

"I love a challenge and strive to conquer at all costs"

"I am very social - I call people even if they don't call me"

"I naturally take charge of most situations"

"I often wonder if the grass may just be greener someplace else"

"I feel content to be wherever I am at any given moment"

"I need the opportunity to try out new and innovative ideas"

"I love to philosophize and intellectualize things"

"My main focus is relationships, family, and social gatherings"

"I like company but feel I can be just as happy doing my own thing by myself"

At your best you are:

Intense and idealistic

Artistic, aspiring to wonderful things

Dramatic, energetic, and fun

Inspiring and challenging to others

Insightful and sympathetic

Courageous and adventurous

A great storyteller and explorer

Spiritual and connected to the world

Easygoing and accepting of others

Curious and into trying new things

Compromising and good at giving advice

Knowledgeable and wise

At your worst you:

Find it very difficult to grow and change

Don't spend a lot of time living in the real world

Need to be the center of attention and are hurt when you're not

Can be selfish and demanding

Become depressed and pessimistic

Tend to be too controlling

Have trouble with commitment

Are too kind and let people take advantage of you

Are naive and too trusting

Find it very difficult to open up

Play the martyr or victim

Are judgmental and intolerant

When you're in love, you:

Hope this is the perfect partner you've been dreaming of

Ignore problems and remain hopeful that things will get better

Need to always feel appreciated, special, and unique

Try to show only your good side and keep your faults to yourself

Enjoy exploring your partner's thoughts and emotions

Are very guarded until you can trust your partner

Fall quickly for someone - but fall out of love quickly too

Are looking for a forever love, someone who will bond to you

Will fall for a strong person easily

Are hard to catch, but are prone to get serious quickly when caught

Quickly adapt to your partner's mood and lifestyle

Pick your partner carefully - you are willing to wait for a quality person

In friendships you:

Are caring and warm .. until you get hurt

Make friends easily. People tend to like you.

Tend to be the most popular person you know.

Gravitate toward people with strong personalities

Are good at picking out new friends that last

Keep the conversation going late into the night

Tend to pick up friends here and there, cycling through them quickly

Prefer being with someone one on one to group activities

Cultivate unusual friendships with all sorts of people

Have a ton of casual friendships but very few good friends

Remember everything about your friends' lives

Tend to stick with old, close friends who are a lot like you

If you become a great success, it will be because:

You are intense about achieving your goals

You are ambitious and a good worker

You always have to be number one, no matter what

You are good at energizing and motivating others

You're excellent at planning and strategizing

You never give up - no matter what

You're willing to take a risk if there's a big reward to gain

You're totally balanced - stress doesn't phase you at all

You are totally creative and always thinking of new ideas

You're bright, and you love a good challenge

You are trustworthy and honest

You are good at solving problems and don't get tied down in details

Which is the most true for you?

"I sometimes feel negative and often find something to complain about."

"I think I am sometimes unrealistic about my expectations of people and situations."

"I love to be the center of attention, even if it's at the expense of others."

"I motivate others with my enthusiasm but move on if they hold me up."

"I need reassurance and security. I am not always sure of my own value."

"I find that I am usually the first one to volunteer for something."

"I don't really need the security of a home, house, or family."

"I avoid conflict of any kind in order to keep stability."

"I openly and easily share my emotions."

"I always find myself interested in others."

"I enjoy nurturing my family and friends."

"I get involved with several projects at once, finding it hard to say no."

Your ideal lover is:

An optimistic, happy person

Is realistic and down to earth

Able to let you be the center of attention

A strong soul, who encourages and admires you

Protective of you but never controlling

Confident, strong, and totally loyal to you

Independent and tolerant of all your flirting

Outgoing, charming, and family oriented

Accepting, caring, and responsible

Brilliant and determined

Sensitive and on your wavelength

Moral and committed to you