What Is Your Love Number?
At your best in relationships you are:
Reliable, honest, and fair
Loving, warm, and generous
Energetic, responsible, and optimistic
Perceptive, expressive, and compassionate
Wise, kind, and open-minded
Loyal, caring, and supportive
Charming, fun-loving, and spontaneous
Confident, loyal, and protective
Accepting, gentle, and patient
At your worst in relationships you are:
Judgmental, controlling, and argumentative
Possessive, insincere, and manipulative
Self-centered, superficial, and vindictive
Temperamental, withdrawn, and emotionally needy
Arrogant, negative, and stubborn
Unpredictable, paranoid, and sarcastic
Impulsive, restless, and unreliable
Insensitive, demanding, and combative
Passive-aggressive, apathetic, and forgetful
You would never:
Let your parter wear something inappropriate to a wedding
Have dinner at your sweetie's parents' home without bringing a gift
Cry for more than fifteen minutes after a bad breakup
Get over a fight quickly, even if it was a petty fight
Spend all day shopping for the perfect date outfit
Feel calm if your partner was having lunch with his / her ex
Take a date to a normal, everyday restaurant
Ask your sweetie to hold your hand because you're feeling insecure
Talk all about your day without asking how your partner's day was
Feel jealous if your sweetie talks too much about an attractive co-worker
Leave handwritten love notes for your sweetheart
Compare yourself to all your partner's ex-lovers
Take a long time to get over past relationships
Know that someone loves you, even before they say it
Remember the name and details about everyone your sweetie dated
Date exciting, adventurous, unique people
Have a snappy comeback if someone makes fun of you
Refrain from criticizing your sweetheart in public
You're likely to fall for someone who:
Proves that they are a trustworthy and loyal partner
Appreciates you and thanks you for your help
Acknowledges all your achievements and successes
Understands your depth of feeling and emotion
Gets your independent interests and lets you pursue them
Openly and honestly commits to you
Gets as excited about new experiences as you do
Is honest and direct... and likes it when you are too
Gives you complements, hugs, and tons of attention
Something very few people know about you is:
You pick up on every negative remark, even veiled ones
You get close to people quickly, maybe a little too quickly
You feel uneasy and uncomfortable if you're not being productive
You absolutely hate it when people try to get you to "lighten up"
You tend to need a lot of time to get used to new ideas
You only feel safe in a relationship that's open and honest
You tend to deny and gloss over difficulties in your life
You are often unaware that you've hurt someone's feelings
You will rebel if someone tries to order you around
What is the most true for you?
"I demonstrate my love through effort and hard work."
"I know how to get people to like me."
"I fear intimacy and may move on when a relationship gets too close."
"It's difficult to find a relationship in which I feel really loved."
"I usually don't want to spend a lot of time talking about feelings."
"I prefer to date someone who is proven and predictable."
"Even if I'm feeling vulnerable, I don't show it to anyone."
"I am attracted to intense, exciting people."
"I tend not to make many demands on the person I'm dating."
The best way your partner can give you support is by:
Reassuring you that you don't have to prove you're perfect
Take an interest in your feelings, interests, and life
Encouraging you to work on yourself and your relationships
Stay strong and centered, even when you're upset
Being objective and logical when you have a disagreement
Having clear rules and definitions about your relationship
Encouraging you to express all your emotions, even the bad ones
Not giving into to you. Finding compromises that benefit you both.
Asking you questions and focusing on your needs.
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