Do You Fight Fair?
During a fight, bringing up past issues is:
Pretty much unacceptable, unless they're really relevant
Fine, if they're still unresolved
Totally fair game - during a fight, anything is on the table
During an argument, your main objective is:
To resolve the conflict
To make your point
To prove you are right
If someone you're close to forgot your birthday, you would:
Expect an apology, but let it go
Wait for them to bring it up, and then give them an earful
Confront them and make them feel really bad about it
During an argument, how much can you see the other person's point of view?
Pretty clearly, even if you have to work to empathize with them
Somewhat, after you've been fighting for a while
Not at all - you only see things your way
How often do your fights devolve into name calling and yelling?
Never - you'll walk away before that
More than you'd like
During an argument, you tend to emphasize:
How you feel
A mixture of how you feel and what the other person did wrong
What the other person did wrong
Your sweetie has hurt your feelings pretty badly and wants to make up with you. You:
Forgive them and let it go
Hold a grudge for a little while, but make up pretty quickly
Give them the silent treatment for a couple days
Are You a Cheapskate?
Are You Like Your Mom?
Are You Closer to Your Friends or Your Family?
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