Are You Afraid of Commitment?
When someone tells you "I love you" for the first time, you usually feel:
Nervous - love can carry a lot of expectations
Happy - you can't help wondering if you really love them back
Overjoyed - you've been waiting for this
After you've been dating someone for a couple months, how many people have you introduced them to?
Some close friends
Your friends, family, co-workers... everyone!
How much time are you able to put into a relationship?
A evening a week if you're lucky
A few days a week, at least
At least a little bit every day
When you hang out with people who've been married a long time:
You are very thankful that you're not married
You somewhat envy them, but you also wonder if they're bored
You feel totally comfortable
If you were to commit to the person you're currently dating or interested in:
They would have to change a lot about themselves
A few things about them would have to change.
Not relevant. You've already committed yourself to them.
If someone you're with goes through a rough patch and becomes very needy for months, you:
Are likely to break up
Are about 50-50 on sticking it out
Will stay in the relationship
At this point in your life, could you see yourself cheating on someone?
Yes - relationships are complicated
You could imagine it, but it's not especially likely
That's totally out of the question
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