Blogthings - Why Don't You Have a Boyfriend?

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You've signed up with an online dating service and you get matched up with a guy who seems awesome. Runs his own business, travels for Europe to fun, and plays tennis on the weekends. What's your reaction?

You write back to him, but you worry about saying the wrong thing. He seems great - and you don't want to chase him away.
You're excited, but too swamped to communicate with him right now. You'll get back to him in a few days.
You communicate with him immediately, telling him all about yourself. You've got to nab this guy!
You wonder what kind of business he owns - and what his travel to Europe really involves. This guy seems too good to be true.

Making fun of the guys who are trying to talk to your girlfriends, before heading to a better club down the street.
Already hitting on guys at the happy hour around the corner from work. You've given out your phone number a few times by 10 pm.
Catching up with work in the early evening, having dinner with one group of friends mid-evening - before meeting some other friends for dancing.
Hanging around the house with your roomies or girlfriends - or catching up on your web surfing.

You join one or two sites, but you aren't sure about what photo to put up. You just can't seem to make a profile you like.
You join a few sites, fill out a very flirty profile, and start emailing the guys who catch your eye.
You join one or two sites, but you are too busy to fill out your profile completely - or respond to most of your emails.
You join a few sites, check out the guys, and don't find anyone even close to datable. And the emails you get? Lame.

A guy you've been interested in forever asks you out for coffee on Saturday morning. What's your response?

"Is Saturday afternoon okay? Saturday morning, I'll be recovering from Friday night poker with the girls!"
"Sounds great" but secretly wonder how you'll keep up the conversation with him.
"How about a nice picnic in the park instead. I'll bring the food - you bring the wine."
"No thanks, I'm kind of busy." You aren't busy, but coffee does not cut it for a date!

You belong to a high priced gym - where you swim in the olympic pool and take spinning
You're the type to do yoga or the exercise bike at home - you prefer privacy
You prefer to play a co-ed game of football or basketball - and get close to the cutest guys
Jumping rope, push-ups, running, crunches - whatever you can fit into your schedule

Your guy taking the lead and doing a good job. Also, he should be your best friend and boyfriend in one.
A guy with a great personality, lots of charm, a good job, and great looks. Oh, and no female friends.
You taking the lead on most things - without him actually knowing it.
Both of you having a lot of separate interests and friends, with quality together time every so often.