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When It Comes to Men, Are You a Player?

After a break up, how soon until you are dating a new guy?

It doesn't take you more than a few weeks before you've met someone new.
It tends to take awhile, but you eventually bounce back.
Soon. So soon, in fact, that you've occasionally started seeing one guy before breaking things off with the last.

A very sexy lawyer you've had your eye on finally asks you out for Friday night. Problem is, you've already got a date - with a bartender you're only sort of interested in. What do you do?

Tell the lawyer you'd love to, but you're booked. Hopefully, he'll ask you out for another time.
Call the bartender and cancel. Hint that you'd like to go out on Saturday, just in case things don't work out with the lawyer.
Call the bartender and push back the time. You'll use him as a warm up to lawyer guy. No harm in having two dates in one night.

Your best gay guy friend just flaked on being your date for your sister's wedding. Can you find a replacement?

Yeah, but she'll be wearing a dress as well.
Sure, you've got tons of guys you can call. One of your guy friends or ex's will fit in that tux!
Maybe, you do know a guy who might go along for the free food and drinks.

Have you ever had an online identity or email address that your boyfriend didn't know about?

No interest. You share pretty much everything with the guy you're with.
Not yet, but it sounds like an interesting idea.
Sure. It gives you the freedom to do whatever you want - including innocent flirting with other guys.

You're on a third date with a super hottie, and he casually mentions that he's dating other people. Deep down, what's your reaction?

You wonder why he's being so upfront. You're dating other people as well, but you keep it quiet.
A bit concerned. You hope that the two of you will be exclusive soon - but you'll try to date other people for now, as well.
Upset. You'd prefer that the two of you were exclusive. In fact, there won't be another date unless those rules are set.

Have you ever cheated on a boyfriend?

Nope, never. Even if it's crossed your mind, you couldn't live with yourself afterward.
Of course, who hasn't? And another thing: drunken kisses don't count.
Once, but you felt pretty guilty about it afterwards. You probably won't ever do it again.

What best describes your everyday wardrobe?

Casual and comfortable. Your clothes are cute - but you certainly aren't trying to impress anyone.
Feminine, sexy, and fun. No matter where you go, you dress your best. Who knows who you might meet?
Generally trendy and modern, although you can be spotted looking a little more sporty / casual at times - like when you're heading to the gym or early in the morning.

How do you feel about dating more than one person at once?

It's crucial. That's why it's called "dating" and not "marriage."
At the beginning, sure. You're not one to jump in too quickly.
Argh, no. Juggling multiple guys will just lead to trouble.