Blogthings - What Makes You a Good Friend?

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If your friend told you something about themselves that was quite shameful, you would:

Tell them that you understand, and try to help them figure out how to get past it
Just listen in a non judgmental way
Change the subject to something more comfortable
Tell them what you honestly think about it, even your opinion is harsh
Make a joke about it to lighten the mood
Tell them it's okay, and you're still their friend

You have a falling out with your best friend, and you haven't heard from them in few weeks. You:

Invite your friend out to do something special
Tell your friend that not talking hurts, and hash out the unpretty details of your fight
Send your friend a little gift with a hand written note apologizing, even if it wasn't completely your fault
Move on... the drama probably isn't worth it
Write your friend an email about what happened, and open a non confrontational discussion on how to improve your friendship
Call your friend and say that you're ready to talk

Your friend is wearing something completely hideous and inappropriate. Do you say anything?

Someone accuses your friend of a pretty serious crime, but the evidence is sort of shaky. How do you respond?

You flat out ask your friend if they did it, and tell them what other people are saying
You are there for your friend with funny DVD's, ice cream, and any other fun distraction
You help your friend get a lawyer and work through this
You stick up for your friend to anyone and everyone who brings it up
You accept that your friend may have done this, but stick by them anyway
You distance yourself from the situation... too sketchy