What Kind of Soul Are You?

What's Your Element?

What Kind of Soul Are You?

Which is the most like you?

"My main focus is relationships, family, and social gatherings"
"I love a challenge and strive to conquer at all costs"
"I naturally take charge of most situations"
"I think of myself as positive and outgoing, especially in difficult circumstances."
"I dream of the perfect mate even though I am disappointed again and again by people"
"I feel content to be wherever I am at any given moment"
"I am very social - I call people even if they don't call me"
"I like company but feel I can be just as happy doing my own thing by myself"
"I often wonder if the grass may just be greener someplace else"
"I need the opportunity to try out new and innovative ideas"
"I find that I often try to see the best in someone"
"I love to philosophize and intellectualize things"

At your best you are:

Curious and into trying new things
Intense and idealistic
Artistic, aspiring to wonderful things
Insightful and sympathetic
A great storyteller and explorer
Inspiring and challenging to others
Easygoing and accepting of others
Dramatic, energetic, and fun
Knowledgeable and wise
Spiritual and connected to the world
Courageous and adventurous
Compromising and good at giving advice

At your worst you:

Are too kind and let people take advantage of you
Find it very difficult to grow and change
Are naive and too trusting
Have trouble with commitment
Don't spend a lot of time living in the real world
Are judgmental and intolerant
Become depressed and pessimistic
Find it very difficult to open up
Need to be the center of attention and are hurt when you're not
Can be selfish and demanding
Tend to be too controlling
Play the martyr or victim

When you're in love, you:

Hope this is the perfect partner you've been dreaming of
Are very guarded until you can trust your partner
Ignore problems and remain hopeful that things will get better
Enjoy exploring your partner's thoughts and emotions
Quickly adapt to your partner's mood and lifestyle
Are looking for a forever love, someone who will bond to you
Need to always feel appreciated, special, and unique
Are hard to catch, but are prone to get serious quickly when caught
Will fall for a strong person easily
Pick your partner carefully - you are willing to wait for a quality person
Fall quickly for someone - but fall out of love quickly too
Try to show only your good side and keep your faults to yourself

In friendships you:

Tend to stick with old, close friends who are a lot like you
Are good at picking out new friends that last
Have a ton of casual friendships but very few good friends
Cultivate unusual friendships with all sorts of people
Make friends easily. People tend to like you.
Tend to pick up friends here and there, cycling through them quickly
Prefer being with someone one on one to group activities
Keep the conversation going late into the night
Are caring and warm .. until you get hurt
Tend to be the most popular person you know.
Remember everything about your friends' lives
Gravitate toward people with strong personalities

If you become a great success, it will be because:

You never give up - no matter what
You're totally balanced - stress doesn't phase you at all
You are totally creative and always thinking of new ideas
You are intense about achieving your goals
You're excellent at planning and strategizing
You are good at solving problems and don't get tied down in details
You are good at energizing and motivating others
You are trustworthy and honest
You're bright, and you love a good challenge
You always have to be number one, no matter what
You are ambitious and a good worker
You're willing to take a risk if there's a big reward to gain

Which is the most true for you?

"I get involved with several projects at once, finding it hard to say no."
"I openly and easily share my emotions."
"I find that I am usually the first one to volunteer for something."
"I sometimes feel negative and often find something to complain about."
"I motivate others with my enthusiasm but move on if they hold me up."
"I think I am sometimes unrealistic about my expectations of people and situations."
"I avoid conflict of any kind in order to keep stability."
"I love to be the center of attention, even if it's at the expense of others."
"I don't really need the security of a home, house, or family."
"I enjoy nurturing my family and friends."
"I always find myself interested in others."
"I need reassurance and security. I am not always sure of my own value."

Your ideal lover is:

An optimistic, happy person
Sensitive and on your wavelength
Outgoing, charming, and family oriented
Is realistic and down to earth
Confident, strong, and totally loyal to you
Accepting, caring, and responsible
Brilliant and determined
Moral and committed to you
Able to let you be the center of attention
A strong soul, who encourages and admires you
Independent and tolerant of all your flirting
Protective of you but never controlling

Are you an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in the middle?

Introvert - you prefer to spend time alone
Extrovert - you love to hang out with people
In between, you like a little of each