1. At your best in relationships you are:
• Perceptive, expressive, and compassionate
• Loyal, caring, and supportive
• Charming, fun-loving, and spontaneous
• Reliable, honest, and fair
• Accepting, gentle, and patient
• Energetic, responsible, and optimistic
• Loving, warm, and generous
• Wise, kind, and open-minded
• Confident, loyal, and protective
2. At your worst in relationships you are:
• Judgmental, controlling, and argumentative
• Self-centered, superficial, and vindictive
• Passive-aggressive, apathetic, and forgetful
• Arrogant, negative, and stubborn
• Insensitive, demanding, and combative
• Posessive, insincere, and manipulative
• Impulsive, restless, and unreliable
• Tempermental, withdrawn, and emotionally needy
• Unpredictable, paranoid, and sarcastic
3. You would never:
• Let your parter wear something inappropriate to a wedding
• Cry for more than fifteen minutes after a bad breakup
• Talk all about your day without asking how your partner's day was
• Spend all day shopping for the perfect date outfit
• Have dinner at your sweetie's parents' home without bringing a gift
• Take a date to a normal, everyday restaurant
• Ask your sweetie to hold your hand because you're feeling insecure
• Get over a fight quickly, even if it was a petty fight
• Feel calm if your partner was having lunch with his / her ex
4. You always:
• Know that someone loves you, even before they say it
• Have a snappy comeback if someone makes fun of you
• Compare yourself to all your partner's ex-lovers
• Take a long time to get over past relationships
• Remember the name and details about everyone your sweetie dated
• Leave handwritten love notes for your sweetheart
• Date exciting, adventurous, unique people
• Refrain from criticizing your sweetheart in public
• Feel jealous if your sweetie talks too much about an attractive co-worker
5. You're likely to fall for someone who:
• Acknowledges all your acheivements and successes
• Proves that they are a trustworthy and loyal partner
• Gives you complements, hugs, and tons of attention
• Gets as excited about new experiences as you do
• Understands your depth of feeling and emotion
• Is honest and direct, and likes it when you are too
• Appreciates you and thanks you for your help
• Openly and honestly commits to you
• Gets your independent interests and lets you pursue them
6. Something very few people know about you is:
• You feel uneasy and uncomfortable if you're not being productive
• You pick up on every negative remark, even veiled ones
• You absolutely hate it when people try to get you to "lighten up"
• You get close to people quickly, maybe a little too quickly
• You are often unaware that you've hurt someone's feelings
• You only feel safe in a relationship that's open and honest
• You tend to need a lot of time to get used to new ideas
• You tend to deny and gloss over difficulties in your life
• You will rebel if someone tries to order you around
7. What is the most true for you?
• "I demonstrate my love through effort and hard work."
• "I fear intimacy and may move on when a relationship gets too close."
• "I tend not to make many demands on the person I'm dating."
• "I usually don't want to spend a lot of time talking about feelings."
• "I am attracted to intense, exciting people."
• "I know how to get people to like me."
• "Even if I'm feeling vulnerable, I don't show it to anyone."
• "It's difficult to find a relationship in which I feel really loved."
• "I prefer to date someone who is proven and predictable."
8. The best way your partner can give you support is by:
• Reassuring you that you don't have to prove you're perfect
• Encouraging you to work on yourself and your relationships
• By asking you questions and focusing on your needs.
• Being objective and logical when you have a disagreement
• Take an interest in your feelings, interests, and life
• Encouraging you to express all your emotions, even the bad ones
• Not giving into to you. Finding compromises that benefit you both.
• Stay strong and centered, even when you're upset
• Having clear rules and definitions about your relationship

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