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  1. At your best in relationships you are:
    • Perceptive, expressive, and compassionate
    • Loyal, caring, and supportive
    • Charming, fun-loving, and spontaneous
    • Reliable, honest, and fair
    • Accepting, gentle, and patient
    • Energetic, responsible, and optimistic
    • Loving, warm, and generous
    • Wise, kind, and open-minded
    • Confident, loyal, and protective
  2. At your worst in relationships you are:
    • Judgmental, controlling, and argumentative
    • Self-centered, superficial, and vindictive
    • Passive-aggressive, apathetic, and forgetful
    • Arrogant, negative, and stubborn
    • Insensitive, demanding, and combative
    • Posessive, insincere, and manipulative
    • Impulsive, restless, and unreliable
    • Tempermental, withdrawn, and emotionally needy
    • Unpredictable, paranoid, and sarcastic
  3. You would never:
    • Let your parter wear something inappropriate to a wedding
    • Cry for more than fifteen minutes after a bad breakup
    • Talk all about your day without asking how your partner's day was
    • Spend all day shopping for the perfect date outfit
    • Have dinner at your sweetie's parents' home without bringing a gift
    • Take a date to a normal, everyday restaurant
    • Ask your sweetie to hold your hand because you're feeling insecure
    • Get over a fight quickly, even if it was a petty fight
    • Feel calm if your partner was having lunch with his / her ex
  4. You always:
    • Know that someone loves you, even before they say it
    • Have a snappy comeback if someone makes fun of you
    • Compare yourself to all your partner's ex-lovers
    • Take a long time to get over past relationships
    • Remember the name and details about everyone your sweetie dated
    • Leave handwritten love notes for your sweetheart
    • Date exciting, adventurous, unique people
    • Refrain from criticizing your sweetheart in public
    • Feel jealous if your sweetie talks too much about an attractive co-worker
  5. You're likely to fall for someone who:
    • Acknowledges all your acheivements and successes
    • Proves that they are a trustworthy and loyal partner
    • Gives you complements, hugs, and tons of attention
    • Gets as excited about new experiences as you do
    • Understands your depth of feeling and emotion
    • Is honest and direct, and likes it when you are too
    • Appreciates you and thanks you for your help
    • Openly and honestly commits to you
    • Gets your independent interests and lets you pursue them
  6. Something very few people know about you is:
    • You feel uneasy and uncomfortable if you're not being productive
    • You pick up on every negative remark, even veiled ones
    • You absolutely hate it when people try to get you to "lighten up"
    • You get close to people quickly, maybe a little too quickly
    • You are often unaware that you've hurt someone's feelings
    • You only feel safe in a relationship that's open and honest
    • You tend to need a lot of time to get used to new ideas
    • You tend to deny and gloss over difficulties in your life
    • You will rebel if someone tries to order you around
  7. What is the most true for you?
    • "I demonstrate my love through effort and hard work."
    • "I fear intimacy and may move on when a relationship gets too close."
    • "I tend not to make many demands on the person I'm dating."
    • "I usually don't want to spend a lot of time talking about feelings."
    • "I am attracted to intense, exciting people."
    • "I know how to get people to like me."
    • "Even if I'm feeling vulnerable, I don't show it to anyone."
    • "It's difficult to find a relationship in which I feel really loved."
    • "I prefer to date someone who is proven and predictable."
  8. The best way your partner can give you support is by:
    • Reassuring you that you don't have to prove you're perfect
    • Encouraging you to work on yourself and your relationships
    • By asking you questions and focusing on your needs.
    • Being objective and logical when you have a disagreement
    • Take an interest in your feelings, interests, and life
    • Encouraging you to express all your emotions, even the bad ones
    • Not giving into to you. Finding compromises that benefit you both.
    • Stay strong and centered, even when you're upset
    • Having clear rules and definitions about your relationship