How Assertive Are You?

Your best friend forgets your birthday, and it really hurts your feelings. How do you react?

You bring it up - telling her how it made you feel

You confront her about it

You ignore it. Everyone makes mistakes.

You jokingly bring it up

You don't say anything but make sure and forget her birthday too!

You're waiting to be seated at a restaurant, and a smaller group that came fifteen minutes after you get seated first. You:

Leave

Tell the hostess that you were there first

Post a bunch of bad reviews of the restaurant online

Send them a complaint email when you get home

Make a scene and demand to see the manager

Say nothing, but look for a new job

Schedule a meeting with your boss and voice your concerns

Tell them they need to ship up or you'll tell the boss

Secretly conspire to get them fired

Ask people to do more of the tasks they should be doing

You tell your friend what you need done, but you don't ask directly.

You end up not asking. You're not good at asking for favors.

You make your friend feel sorry for you, and you use guilt to get your way.

You ask and offer up a favor in return.

You come right out and ask. If you get resistance, you point out the favors you've done for your friend.

End up buying something and feeling bad about it later

Buy something but later return it

Use it as an opportunity to drive a hard bargain

Subtle insult the salesperson until he's totally humiliated

Say no and leave quickly

You usually hear "I love you" for the first time after a fight

You always say "I love you" first, but only when it's timely

It's hard for you to say "I love you"

You always say "I love you" first, and often a bit too early

You have no problem saying "I love you" - once it's been said

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