1. During a fight, bringing up past issues is:
• Fine, if they're still unresolved
• Pretty much unacceptable, unless they're really relevant
• Totally fair game - during a fight, anything is on the table
2. During an argument, your main objective is:
• To resolve the conflict
• To prove you are right
• To make your point
3. If someone you're close to forgot your birthday, you would:
• Expect an apology, but let it go
• Wait for them to bring it up, and then give them an earful
• Confront them and make them feel really bad about it
4. During an argument, how much can you see the other person's point of view?
• Pretty clearly, even if you have to work to empathize with them
• Somewhat, after you've been fighting for a while
• Not at all - you only see things your way
5. How often do your fights devolve into name calling and yelling?
• More than you'd like
• Every time
• Never - you'll walk away before that
6. During an argument, you tend to emphasize:
• How you feel
• A mixture of how you feel and what the other person did wrong
• What the other person did wrong
7. Your sweetie has hurt your feelings pretty badly and wants to make up with you. You:
• Hold a grudge for a little while, but make up pretty quickly
• Give them the silent treatment for a couple days
• Forgive them and let it go

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